when the mess dried up you came up singing

how is that that the relationships you thought were the best; the healthiest; the ones you cherished the most can end up being the most dysfunctional?

has it been that way all along?

sometimes i think we forget what it's like to be in a mutual relationship: one that consists of give and take; compromise and honesty.  we are often too busy doing most of the work to realize we're doing most of the work.  it's so easy to fall into an unhealthy pattern and not stop to realize it until we're buried underneath.

currently listening: alkaline trio